Anonymous writes in asking for advice. He and his wife are living in the house that was given to them by his parents after they retired. They agreed to both work to save money to buy a house of their own. Before the house was offered to them, she quit her job because she wasn't happy and she was also pregnant with their second child. They had supposedly agreed that she would eventually get a job but hasn't made an effort to get one. He is becoming frustrated and says he tries to talk to her and she becomes very defensive. What should he do? Do you need relationship advice? Email Lauren at letterstolauren@963wdvd.com.