His best friend lost his parents a year and a half ago and it's been extremely hard on him so much so that he went through a major mental crisis. Sometimes his friend will come by his house in the middle of the night just to talk. He hasn't told much about this situation to his fiancee who lives with him, other than his friend lost a parent and it's been hard. She is starting to get frustrated with him but he says his friend and his well-being are a priority to him. Is he the jerk?